Confusing Communication

I was communicating with a man for the last month on email through a dating site. He seemed very dynamic--a professional singer, an author, does seminars etc etc. He was saying things like "I fell in love with you at first glance", "I would like to be your one man". But, in terms of meeting me (he lives in San Diego) he kept saying that he had to figure out his schedule. He was fine with doing a long distance relationship (which I was hesitant about) and yet, couldn't seem to find the time!

Is she playing me?

While helping my buddy move, I decided to take a break and hit up the Starbucks around the corner. I order my coffee and sandwich and sat outside in the sun. I walked up to a table one seat away from an attractive girl. I said nothing as I ate my sandwich, but couldn't help but notice she was playing with her hair and looking my way. I finished my sandwich got up and walked inside.