I’m not so long ago divorced from a long marriage that began when I was really young so I’m new to the dating scene. I’ve been seeing a guy exclusively for 8 months and I constantly worry that he’ll feel … Continued
My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a little over 2 months and recently he seemed to notice that I always let him call me. I think it's kind of funny that I've maybe called him once in all the time that he has known me, and he's only noticed now, but that's beside the point :)
I don't meet men very often that excite me, but this weekend a guy that makes me giddy with excitement asked me for my number. We seemed to hit it off, so I gave it to him. This time I'm trying to play it smart and let him pursue me. Having never done this before, how long does it take for him to call me?!
While helping my buddy move, I decided to take a break and hit up the Starbucks around the corner. I order my coffee and sandwich and sat outside in the sun. I walked up to a table one seat away from an attractive girl. I said nothing as I ate my sandwich, but couldn't help but notice she was playing with her hair and looking my way. I finished my sandwich got up and walked inside.
My boyfriend and I made plans on Sunday to hang out at his place on Wednesday night, but now I haven't heard from him for 2 days since. He usually calls every day or other day or so, and it bothers me that he hasn't called.
Well I have met up with a boy a couple of times. First time was great! Second time not so great! I made a big mistake of drinking wine!! Oh dear! So anywho, to make a long story short, I really like this guy. I think he may be one of my soul mates. I think he has the wrong idea about me though, as he is ignoring me. I think he thinks I am a cold bitch because he was really opening up to me and telling me all his problems but I wasn't being overly compassionate because I am a Capricorn and tend to be a bit cautious at first. But I am really compassionate and caring, it just takes getting to know me to see that. So. I guess I kind of feel ripped off because we got along so great and had so many things in common and he seemed like he REALLY liked me but seems he is being very judgmental before he even sees the real me. So, part of me just wants to say, "buddy, you are missing the boat!! Big Time - your loss" but another part of me really wants to find a way to get him to hang out again so he can see the real me! I think if he has it in his mind that I am a certain way that I am not and I just ask him to hang out again he is going to say no. So I think it is very important how I word the email or text to him. Do you have any suggestions??
I've been seeing a guy for a while now, we get along great and have a lot of fun when we go out, about twice per week. The thing is, when I call him, he always seems pre-occupied, or busy. He can never talk for very long either. I feel like I want to bring it up with him but I'm not sure if I should.