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  • Why Online Dating Feels Like a Cop Out

    Nothing gets a woman’s heart racing faster than when a man she finds attractive makes an approach. And I have never seen a man more stoked than when he approaches a woman he’s attracted to, asks for her number and gets it. By the same token, there are very few situations that can bring a man down ha … Continued


  • The Rules Deconstructed

    Here begins the journey through the quick and dirty. ‘The Rules’ is the sort of book you either love or hate, but regardless… there is truth within. Knowingly or unknowingly, Sherrie and Ellen nail the feminine creature to the wall.